According to Islam, the children are born naturally Muslim anyways. You could agree with her to ‘let the children choose’, but
Try to avoid packaging or transporting pork whenever possible, and if you must, make Istighfar and possibly support it with a charitable
It is extremely unwise to force a person to abandon a basic principle and pillar of religion for the sake of a secondary matter
The principle is that zakat should be disbursed in the country of origin, unless there is sufficient supply or a well-defined need outside the country.
Buying a second home is an investment decision. Taking out a loan for investment purposes is in no way justified. The Qur’an mentions interest as